My LETTER TO YOU!
It’s Ashley and welcome to my RED FLAGS RUN website, YAYYYY! For those of you who’ve read my 1st book RED FLAGS RUN that was released on May 6, 2017 thank you so much, and for those of you who didn’t, do yourself a favor and GO GET IT. Trust ME, you will NOT be disappointed! I have personally been through some crazy things in my past relationships.
The reason for me even writing my book is simple: I am trying to get people, including myself, to stop ignoring the red flags, and run. I have wasted so much time ignoring the signs, and have had major setbacks. I can’t afford to be held back any longer. I have actually been on a 4 year “No Dating Break” (breathe). I know, I know it sounds crazy long and impossible right! Let me explain, I have dated the same type of dude for years, all with different backgrounds. I had to put myself on a serious pause to really evaluate and detox myself in order to figure out what I was attracting. Trust me, the detox was necessary and very beneficial. I have seen my closest friends do the same, waste their precious years on dead-end relationships and some actually still are.
Unfortunately, I had to dedicate my book to a young lady who is no longer here, her boyfriend took her life after a short couple of months of dating. By short, I mean in less than 60 days she went from dating to her life being ended. It pains me that I can’t ask her what Red Flags she saw in the beginning of that relationship because she is gone. The nonsense ends today, no more horror stories and I will say enough is enough.
Why do we do this to ourselves? Why do we settle? Why do we go for the same type of person; the only thing that separates them is a different name! Don’t worry, I am here to help and in the process this is helping me stay focused. I spent my 4 + year “single life” journey on getting things going for me, I call it my “Next Level Adulting”. I was taking care of business: my book, my business ventures, my career, there was just so much going on so this break was very necessary. It made no sense to waste my precious time on dead-end relationships when I was improving myself and status. I don’t have time to waste and neither do you!
Until next time......